Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Jeremiah Wright: Moving Beyond Crabs-In-A-Barrel Syndrome

A close relative of mine said Barack Obama wouldn't be president this term because black people wouldn't let it happen. I scoffed, but now, after seeing Jeremiah Wright's attack on Obama, I wonder if there isn't some truth in that. If Wright's actions weren't stereotypical crabs-in-barrel mentality, I don't know what is. I'm just so shocked because there is so much at stake. For example, I talked with a young black war bride the other day, 19 years old. Her 20 year old husband is a soldier in Iraq. We are sending babies over there to die, and for what? Since Wright is so fixated on race, you'd think he'd consider just how many black people are in the military, are in Iraq right now. He'd think long-range about who'd actually get them home. It won't be Hillary Clinton, and for sure it won't be John McCain. McCain in office just means more soldiers sent over as we dig in further in Iraq.

You'd think Rev. Wright could put aside his pride and think of the long-term goal of helping Obama get into office. But no, this man twigged out, wants to act destroyed over Obama rightly distancing from his wilder comments. He wants to ruin Obama's chances of becoming president. And why, his feelings got hurt? It is almost surreal to watch, his public unhinging. I am truly surprised that a man of God would be so ego-bound.

I even wondered, is Rev. Wright mentally ill? The way he performed, and it was a performance, was really crazy. I'm astonished at number of people still supporting him. Some of the explanations I've seen and heard for Wright's behavior from rational, educated people are just so wild. That it's about the black church, black interaction. Let me be clear: this is not about the black church or black traditions. I think Rev. Wright does not represent the black church. It's been some years since I've been in one, but don't recall them as crazy.

Others have said Rev. Wright is being attacked for criticizing America. I don't think he's crazy for that. Seems mentally off because attack on Obama was uncalled for and negatively affects Obama's chances to win. This man is an established preacher who has done great work and orated before in the manner of Dr. Martin Luther King jr. Now, can you imagine Dr. King acting the fool like Rev. Wright did???

I thought not.

Fool. Buffoon. Caricature of a black man. If this not temporary craziness, then it's a deliberate, calculated attempt to throw salt. It's incredibly mean-spirited.

Why is it so important that Barack Obama win? For one thing, Obama winning means less people dead, both short-term and long term. Including less black people. Rev. Wright, supposedly so pro-black, could give a damn. His huge ego won't let him see what Obama could accomplish. What Obama will accomplish. Well maybe, we'll see. Maybe it won't be this term, because I'm sure there will be yet another black 'leader' acting like a crab in a barrel.

Others have said Obama was wrong for distancing from Rev. Wright. They feel he only did so because white people, or 'massa' was afraid of Rev. Wright. It's not about 'massa' being scared of him. It's about this egomaniac refusing to set his pride aside. It's really tiring, the mental chains our people are in. There is no 'massa' we are not slaves, there is no 'them', there is only US. All of us, people, together.

A big reason black people are not considered equal players is overwhelmingly we don't consider ourselves equal. No one can make you feel equal. We're still fixated in believing in 'massa'. If you think like that, then you must think you are a slave. You are free, been free. There is very little stopping grown Americans who are black from pursuing American dream except deeply held views that trigger self-sabotage. People like Rev. wright make careers off of keeping these beliefs going. He's eating, right? He's making money, right? He's in position to show, to help, to lead. Instead he's showing his own people they are not in control of their lives; it's all about what white people do or don't do. But you can't make a living off of telling your people they are slaves, that they can't be equal, when you have Obama saying YES YOU CAN.

I've even had someone tell me that what Rev. Wright did actually helped Obama's campaign, because it gave Obama another opportunity to show he can 'transcend race'. Humph. Consider that 'transcending race' is just another way of saying 'jumping hoops' to prove your competence. Think about it, how come Clinton does not have to 'transcend' her race? Because when you're white, competence is assumed by other white people. Obama's been having to 'transcend race' or prove his competence this entire campaign. So Rev. Wright did not do Obama any favors by triggering yet another hoop-jumping event. It was a deliberate attempt to distract voters from the real issues in order to sabotage Obama's campaign. He showed out on purpose to hurt Obama. His pride was hurt by Obama seeking to distance from him. So he got revenge.

It's also so important for Obama to win because he can take the race struggle to the next level for Americans. Sure it sucks many of us feel we have to 'transcend' race. sure it sucks racism is still happening. But we can't let that define who we are. It's not about what white people think or don't think or what white people do or don't do. We can't wait till there's no more racist white people to claim our equality that's been here all along. America is a great country primarily cause of rapid social changes. Obama can trigger next great wave of social changes for all of us. In addition to race social changes, there's labor issues, health care issues, many many issues that divide and conquer Americans both individually and as a whole. Keep that in mind when hearing the rantings of Rev. Wright.

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Sunday, April 20, 2008

Tavis Smiley Obama Backlash

By now you've heard the rumor that Tavis Smiley quit the Tom Joyner Morning Show because of getting a tremendous amount of negative feedback regarding his comments on Barack Obama. Smiley has since refuted the rumors:

"Contrary to what has been suggested, I have decided to clear some things off my plate so that I can devote my time and attention to some exciting and empowering projects"
Madison Times

Tom Joyner had previously written this:

"The real reason is that he can’t take the hate he’s been getting regarding the Barack issue — hate from the Black people that he loves so much"
Tom Joyner's Blog

This has triggered a lot for interesting questions for me, the primary one being why are so many black Barack Obama supporters angry at Smiley's criticism of Obama? Surely it is ok to question and criticize anyone running for president. I am an Obama supporter however there are things in particular to cultural questions I'd appreciate clarification on. If anyone is to ask these questions, surely it is more appropriate coming from another black person, right? And at any rate can we really expect non-black folks in the media to be aware of or interested in asking Obama these very relevant questions? I wonder if the people angry at Smiley feel that in some way his probing questions are a form of personal attack on Obama, or in some way will cause people not to vote for him. Neither belief has any validity I feel. What do you think?

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Saturday, April 5, 2008

Al Sharpton Defends Dunbar Village Rape Suspects

From Black Women Vote:

I can no longer in good conscience support the efforts of many of these organizations -- not because I do not believe in some of their causes, but because many of them have made it abundantly clear that they believe that black women are not considered worthy of the same protections, rights, and support that they enjoy from us.
Al Sharpton defends the Dunbar Village rape suspects, throws black women and children under the bus


More:
Women not tolerating Sharpton's rape rant
Still Going: NAACP Does 180
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Saturday, March 1, 2008

Barack Obama Voting Tuesday March 4th 2008

Thursday, February 7, 2008

Black Male Appreciation Website

I recently came across the Black Male Appreciation website. It's devoted to positive news about black males that disprove negative stereotypes. As a mom of two black sons I'm glad to see a site like this.
http://www.blackmaleappreciation.com

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Monday, January 21, 2008

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. USA Hero

Today is the celebration of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. He was a remarkable man whose heroic actions along with others helped propel the United States further along the path of social evolution. Some facts about his life and work:

Martin Luther King, Jr. (January 15, 1929 – April 4, 1968), was one of the main leaders of the American civil rights movement. He became a civil rights activist early in his career. He led the Montgomery Bus Boycott (1955 - 1956) and helped found the Southern Christian Leadership Conference (1957), serving as its first president. His efforts led to the 1963 March on Washington, where King delivered his “I Have a Dream” speech. Here he raised public consciousness of the civil rights movement and established himself as one of the greatest orators in U.S. history. In 1964, King became the youngest person to receive the Nobel Peace Prize for his efforts to end segregation and racial discrimination through civil disobedience and other non-violent means.
Read more at Wikipedia

*Did you know Dr. King skipped two grades in high school, which enabled him to enter college at age 15?

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Did you know Dr. King opposed the Vietnam war, and believed in the redistribution of wealth in the USA to correct racial and economic injustice?
*Did you know Dr. King was inspired by Mahatma Gandhi's success with non-violent activism? What King had to say about Gandhi:

"Since being in India, I am more convinced than ever before that the method of nonviolent resistance is the most potent weapon available to oppressed people in their struggle for justice and human dignity. In a real sense, Mahatma Gandhi embodied in his life certain universal principles that are inherent in the moral structure of the universe, and these principles are as inescapable as the law of gravitation."
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I have directly benefited from Dr. King's work and words, all Americans have. I am just now truly beginning to understand the huge sacrifice and humility of this man's life. He was a great man and a prime example of how one person can influence change in others. Why was king a hero leader to all Americans? Time said it best:

Three decades after King was gunned down on a motel balcony in Memphis, Tenn., he is still regarded mainly as the black leader of a movement for black equality. That assessment, while accurate, is far too restrictive. For all King did to free blacks from the yoke of segregation, whites may owe him the greatest debt, for liberating them from the burden of America's centuries-old hypocrisy about race. It is only because of King and the movement that he led that the U.S. can claim to be the leader of the "free world" without inviting smirks of disdain and disbelief. Had he and the blacks and whites who marched beside him failed, vast regions of the U.S. would have remained morally indistinguishable from South Africa under apartheid, with terrible consequences for America's standing among nations. How could America have convincingly inveighed against the Iron Curtain while an equally oppressive Cotton Curtain remained draped across the South?
Read more at Time's profile of Dr. King

I am spending this day with my family celebrating this man's beautiful life and spirit. Thank you, Dr. King, for your vision and bravery. Thank you for all that you did. You are missed but your work goes on.
Dr. King's I Have a Dream Speech
Dr. King Qoutes
Dr. King Photos

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